Crush





Crush

(How to know if it's a crush)

You suddenly want to be around them all the time

You suddenly want to talk about them all the time

You are suddenly thinking about them all the time

You start to feel bad if they don't feel the same way

You want them to feel the same way

You are over the moon if they feel the same way

You can no longer focus on anything else

It's like a nasty bug attacking your immune system

What does it take to get better?

Make yourself busy with other things

Make yourself stop thinking about them

Doing so without another crush is extra hard

It can be done

Why does cupid shoot his arrow at one out of two?
Hyphenated Ethiopian third culture kid. Twitter: @moonchereka

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